Emotions
Some of my friends recently said: "It is expected that the relationship between a man and a woman have to end a marriage …" This was said without sarcasm, subtext and just the man himself without realizing it said indisputable truth – For, indeed often the marriage is the beginning of the end of the relationship. What do you do when the end is yet come? As the practice and science confirms, she is often unprepared for divorce and the consequences that it brings along. By virtue of his emotion. Instead of sensibly think about the future life in the new status, all the forces rush to the bouts of self-pity so lovely and so lonely, his teeth as a woman eats one's conscience for not having managed to keep the family together at least for the sake of children, blaming all the troubles it is a negligent husband. If you already have all agreed and understood that the divorce will take place – for a start, pull yourself together and analyze the situation.
You have in front of independent living and the only hope on their own resources and finances – but do they? It's great if you and your ex-husband about the peace treaty on fair divide all marital and he would not mind to ensure the child (ren) monthly worthy content. But more often different. Disputes over the apartments, cars, bank accounts, place of residence of children and alimony even further aggravating the conflict. In such cases, should not delay its trip to the lawyer – he'll tell you all about this procedure as a dissolution of marriage, as well as your rights in the new status. And, if necessary, will also represent your interests in court. Ignore legal advice is not worth it, otherwise, by accident of time when the tears will end and the awareness of real life, it may be that you turned out with nothing. In the meantime, a small legal literacy campaign on the theme of divorce.
Divorce can be a local government body of civil registration (RAPA) or through the courts. The first option is possible only if both wife agree to divorce, the family is no minor children and there are no property disputes. In other cases – welcome to the court. The good old truth that "all marital property in divorce cases divided in half between the spouses "can move in the direction of women. For example, if a child is living with his mother, then the court can not require half the apartments, but more than that, and maybe the whole living space. Such issues resolved by the court individually in each case, subject to poslerazvodnogo financial position of husband and wife. Ask about their chances of a professional lawyer. And even better if a lawyer will prepare a claim and will defend the rights of mothers and children in court. Avoid contact with ex-husband is unlikely – he as a father obliged to take part in the upbringing of a child and has the right to meet with him. Need to take it and learn behave in a civilized manner even when a child. Remember that the father can get through the court of meetings with the child and then have to give a child my father on a fixed schedule.